Sometimes it is your fault.. Sometimes you don’t listen well enough, you’re selfish, you’re rude and you aren’t always right. Sometimes you fucked it up and tbh that’s okay. It happens, learn from it, apologize and keep it moving. Just because you fucked up doesn’t mean you’re a bad person. Don’t dwell on it
You’re a human, you will screw things up, it’s inevitable. The sooner you acknowledge this and stop trying to be perfect, which is impossible, the better. Now learn from your mistakes and get better