punk-in-the-beerlight:

THIS IS EXACTLY THAT SHIT THAT I HATE. Yes, I realize your intentions are good. But that shit hurts.

Fat women are not brave just for existing. I’m not “SO CONFIDENT” because I posted a selfie just like everyone else in the world does. I’m not confident at all. I want to be. I"m just a person. My weight and body are one small part of me and don’t make me any different from anyone else.

Also? Shit like “You’re beautiful, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise” is so fucking backhanded, quit that. “You’re beautiful” will suffice. When you add the last bit on there, you are literally saying “I’m assuming everyone else tells you you’re ugly, see how nice I am?” and that fucking hurts, too.