aroaceagenderabsol:

vile-peach:

aroaceagenderabsol:

If you occasionally use the wrong pronoun for yourself out loud or in your head, it doesn’t mean you’re wrong about your gender. It’s likely just what you’re used to hearing so it’s become an automatic thing. You’re still you. One day your true pronoun(s) will become automatic to you.

hey does this apply if you consistently misgender yourself because you can’t imagine yourself ever being able to transition/have grown so used to being misgendered it sticks

@vile-peach Absolutely! I’m in that situation myself and it’s incredibly disheartening, but no matter what, no matter what my body looks like, no matter what name or pronoun others call me by, I’m me, I’m my true self on the inside, and so are you friend. As long as you know your own truth, even if sometimes it seems iffy or if you’re unsure, you’re the one who decides that. Please hold out hope that your truth will come to fruition one day 💜💚

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