Why does being in your early 20s feel so much like only having 5 years of your life left in which you need to achieve as much as possible? why do I feel like I have an approaching deadline for success?
when my mutuals address me by my name i ascend to another plane of existence. i’m like………..wow………i really exist as a human with a name in your mind………that is an honour above all honours……
there’s nothing wrong with overly self-indulgent shit like honestly
make that fuckin beauty and the beast au with your otp
draw your favorite character broken and bloody for no reason
make a self-insert that’s super important and powerful
write porn of that obscure ship centered entirely around your personal kinks
headcanon your faves as your sexuality, gender, etc
have fun man
i mean in the past i’ve made fun of all these things but i’ve grown up and chilled out and honestly? fiction is your platform to go nuts. have a great time. do what you want to
just respect other people’s boundaries and don’t go forcing your headcanons down other people’s throats, because they deserve to have a good time too
enjoy fiction however you want to and don’t let other people tell you how it’s supposed to be enjoyed
to all the people reblogging this and saying “except for this type of ship i don’t like”: get bent
If you occasionally use the wrong pronoun for yourself out loud or in your head, it doesn’t mean you’re wrong about your gender. It’s likely just what you’re used to hearing so it’s become an automatic thing. You’re still you. One day your true pronoun(s) will become automatic to you.
hey does this apply if you consistently misgender yourself because you can’t imagine yourself ever being able to transition/have grown so used to being misgendered it sticks
@vile-peach Absolutely! I’m in that situation myself and it’s incredibly disheartening, but no matter what, no matter what my body looks like, no matter what name or pronoun others call me by, I’m me, I’m my true self on the inside, and so are you friend. As long as you know your own truth, even if sometimes it seems iffy or if you’re unsure, you’re the one who decides that. Please hold out hope that your truth will come to fruition one day 💜💚