haleykynz:

rosiepenwood:

multi-fandom-trash-x9000:

scarletsaphire:

itshalloweenmotherfuckers:

trollarcoaster:

phandomofthe0pera:

cisphobicqueer:

sick1y:

IF ME CALLING YOU DUDE OR GURL CAUSES YOU TO HAVE DYSPHORIA YOU SHOULD tell me because you being comfortable is so much more important than some stupid slang 

or when if i call you “man” because i know i do that a lot. please tell me if it causes dysphoria or just makes you upset in general. because i will stop because i love you.

I use those as gender neutral and don’t mean it in a gender way at all but if you don’t like it tell me and I will try to stop (no promises because I usually forget things so I might need reminded a few times)

this also applies to “guurrrrrl”

also mate, buddy, bro, literally anything I use, I generally use them gender neutral but if they make you uncomfortable PLEASE TELL ME

Guy has and probably always will be gender neutral to me, but if it makes you feel uncomfortable please, please tell me.

Please tell me as well!!!! I never meant to make you feel that way! Also if you can find some gender neutral words for you like ‘dude’ or ‘bro’ that feels comfortable for you I would opt for that instead of the words that I usually use.

I say guys a lot tell me if anything bothers you

I don’t say this very often on here but I say these irl a lot when talking to people, but either way if this upsets you on or offline just let me know ya know?