monsterkissed:

pup-disapproves:

characters that go by she or he pronouns, but never states their gender, have their pronouns respected by the fandom.

but characters who go by they/them pronouns and never state their gender are suddenly ambiguous and the gender/pronouns are up to the player.

this is really not so subtle non binary erasure.

cis ppl think the best nb representation is the kind that let’s them impose whatever (invariably binary) alignment they want on someone because that’s the kind of nb people they like best irl