“but i loved [deadname]!”
“eh, i’ll probably forget so i’ll just keep calling you [deadname/old pronouns] lol”
(to afab people) “but your long hair was so pretty!”
“but you were so pretty/handsome as a girl/boy!”
“but you’re so [insert gender role/sexist stereotype here]”
(to trans wlw and mlm)“but wouldn’t it be easier to say you’re cishet?”
et cetera