coreydrake:

hotgothgf:

Don’t have kids if you’re traumatized and it’s going to get in the way of raising a kid safely and healthily and not in a way that’s also gonna traumatize them in a different way. And don’t have kids if you think it’s going to “heal yourself through the purest form of love” children and their childhoods aren’t your guinea pigs to experiment with for your own healing

I hate when people post pictures of their kids and say shit like “My only reason for living” or “My motivation to keep going.” Like, that sounds like deep depression to me and that doesn’t go away because you created a new life.