whenever i see a girl complaining abt her shitty boyfriend and she says that “guys are just like that!” i’m always so sad, because i know girls that are in happy and healthy romantic relationships with men! having a crappy, horrible boyfriend is not something that’s inevitable if you like men. if a man isn’t fulfilling your needs or if he’s simply just a piece of crap, you don’t have to stay in a relationship with him. not to be cliché, but not all men are like that!!! if your man ain’t shit, find a better one!!! it’ll all be alright, please realise and admit to yourself that you deserve better, and that better is out there!!! you need to put yourself first.
And if no man can satisfy you, you could always find a woman…
Okay yeah I guess but ykw this post is my big bisexual woman mood about how women who are into men shouldn’t have to compromise for shitty men because there are actually good men out there and not all men are shitty like I get it but I want women to know that they don’t have to stay or be with men that treat them like crap, with men that are horrible people, just because they think all men are shitty like that. If you’re with a man that’s a shitty boyfriend and a shitty person you don’t have to stay with him because you’re afraid there are no better men out there! There are good men out there that are good, decent people and will treat you the way that you deserve, don’t compromise for a man that won’t! I’ve dated good men and I’m friends with good men and I’m what I’m saying is that they do exist, and to never settle for a shitty man because you’re afraid all men are just like that. Put yourself first. Always.