calling ur dad “my father” is just the socially acceptable way of saying “my dads a bastard and i hate him”
Same goes for ‘My mother’
If you meet someone and they call their parents ‘father’ and ‘mother’ they either were raised in an Amish community or have absolute bastard parents
This or just call them by their first name
Calling parents by their first name either means you killed them and got away with it or are planning to