kieren-fucking-walker:

disease-danger-darkness-silence:

icbiwf:

boydivisionss:

do u ever remember all the horrible offensve things u said when u were like 15 and u literally feel ur soul detach and turn 2 dust 

your fave is problematic: yourself

Basically, yeah. That’s kind of the point – you always have to look back on yourself and be mortified and resolve to be better.

Shit, the stuff I said just five YEARS ago (and I’m almost 33) makes me cringe like a motherfucker.

Burn in mortification. Rise from the ashes and be better. Lather, rinse, repeat for the rest of your life.

This is why purity culture doesn’t work!!! We’re all shit! We can all grow and do better!

sweetschizo:

Being jealous and insecure is okay. Demanding that your friend or partner stop seeing their other friends isn’t.

Wanting attention is okay. Demanding your friend or partners attention 24/7 isn’t.

Being angry is okay. Taking your anger out on innocent people isn’t.

We can’t control our feelings and we shouldn’t attempt to, but we can and should work to control our reactions to said feelings.