owlsofstarlight:

ravencharm:

75% of writing is convincing yourself that your story is worth it

It is. In case you were wondering. Your story is worth the effort you are putting into it. It’s an amazing thing because you are writing it.

self-healing:

hey so i love my shy, reclusive and awkward girls. all of you. those of you who don’t have very many friends or any friends at all, i adore you and appreciate you.

haleykynz:

rosiepenwood:

multi-fandom-trash-x9000:

scarletsaphire:

itshalloweenmotherfuckers:

trollarcoaster:

phandomofthe0pera:

cisphobicqueer:

sick1y:

IF ME CALLING YOU DUDE OR GURL CAUSES YOU TO HAVE DYSPHORIA YOU SHOULD tell me because you being comfortable is so much more important than some stupid slang 

or when if i call you “man” because i know i do that a lot. please tell me if it causes dysphoria or just makes you upset in general. because i will stop because i love you.

I use those as gender neutral and don’t mean it in a gender way at all but if you don’t like it tell me and I will try to stop (no promises because I usually forget things so I might need reminded a few times)

this also applies to “guurrrrrl”

also mate, buddy, bro, literally anything I use, I generally use them gender neutral but if they make you uncomfortable PLEASE TELL ME

Guy has and probably always will be gender neutral to me, but if it makes you feel uncomfortable please, please tell me.

Please tell me as well!!!! I never meant to make you feel that way! Also if you can find some gender neutral words for you like ‘dude’ or ‘bro’ that feels comfortable for you I would opt for that instead of the words that I usually use.

I say guys a lot tell me if anything bothers you

I don’t say this very often on here but I say these irl a lot when talking to people, but either way if this upsets you on or offline just let me know ya know?

rpfunstuff:

😍 – otp
🙂 – I ship it but it’s not on my otp list
😐 – I don’t ship it but it’s not on my notp list
😡 – notp

nonbinarysollux:

nonbinarysollux:

pls support trans girls and trans women who like traditionally masculine things

no seriously please reblog this ive seen so many posts saying to support trans boys and trans men who like traditionally feminine things and those posts are good!! i love them!!

but i have never in my life seen a post saying to support masculine trans girls and trans women or trans girls and trans women who like traditionally masculine things and its really important to understand that showing support for trans women in any form is just as important as showing support for trans men so please, please reblog this.

support trans women and trans girls. support trans women and trans girls who like traditionally masculine things. trans women and trans girls who like traditionally masculine things are not any less valid than trans women and trans girls who don’t!!

mirthandir:

sweetgrumdrop:

the-paper-dragon:

I am a dude with a boyfriend.

We’re both Asian.

We went on a bus and sat in front of two girls.

I kissed behind his ear (and then he punched me in the arm, he’s shy in public) and I heard one of them whisper to the other something along the lines of “We get to see close up yaoi on here!”.

(Neither of us are even Japanese)

I was kinda offended, so I took my boyfriend by the hand and left.

It made us feel very uncomfortable.

I just want to say:

Our love and relationship isn’t for your entertainment.

Nor is it here for you to fetishize and sexualize.

Please just keep your “yaoi xDD” to just fiction, and please do not call us “yaoi”.

Many dismiss this as not a problem, which I find rude as they have never experienced this so they don’t really have much to say against this.

Thank you for reading.

– Submitted by Anonymous

* ^^^ Sorry to hear that anon D: that’s pretty terrible.

Really? I guess being accepted is just as bad as being hated. I bet of the girls had hissed in disgust he’d be sobbing and ranting about acceptance.

Having straight people only see you as fap material isn’t acceptance you fucking homophobic walnut