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someone: hey how are u feelin ?
me: oh, im not
Things to know before April comes
#1: Autism is not a dangerous disease that needs to be cured!
#2: Autism speaks is a bad organisation that doesn’t listen to autistic people and portrays autism as a horrible disease.
#3: Most autistic people don’t want a cure.
#4: Vaccines don’t cause autism!
#5 Based on how autism works, ‘curing’ it in a live person is virtually impossible
#6 most “cures” for autism revolve around eugenics, i.e. Making sure we’re never born in the first place
#7 avoid using “functioning labels.” High-functioning is used to deny us support, low-functioning is used to deny us agency. This also goes for “mild” and “severe” autism.
#8 Forcing autistic people to behave in a way acceptable to neurotypicals that’s unnatural and often painful for us and punishing us when we don’t (often physically) is abusive. Let us be autistic in peace.
#9 if you’re looking for a good Autism-based organization to support, try Autistic Self Advocacy Network instead!
artists: aw man today was a slow day, i just did a few doodles and colored a sketch from yesterday
writers: never once in my life have a written
i hate how reward systems never work for me like i can’t just say “if i finish this assignment i can have a cookie” bc my brain is like “…..or u could just have one right now” and i can’t argue with that logic
A small list of random ass sites I’ve found useful when writing:
- Fragrantica: perfume enthusiast site that has a long list of scents. v helpful when you’re writing your guilty pleasure abo fics
- Just One Cookbook: recipe site that centers on Japanese cuisine. Lots of different recipes to browse, plenty of inspiration so you’re not just “ramen and sushi”
- This comparing heights page: gives you a visual on height differences between characters
- A page on the colors of bruises+healing stages: well just that. there you go. describe your bruises properly
- McCormick Science Institute: yes this is a real thing. the site shows off research on spices and gives the history on them. be historically accurate or just indulge in mindless fascination. boost your restaurant au with it
- A Glossary of Astronomy Terms: to pepper in that sweet terminology for your astrophysics major college au needs
Adding to this since I’m working on a shifter au one-shot:
More:
- Cocktail Flow: a site with a variety of cocktails that’s pretty easy to navigate and offers photos of the drinks. You can sort by themes, strengths, type and base. My only real annoyance with this site is that the drinks are sometimes sorted into ~masculine~ and ~feminine~ but ehhhh. It’s great otherwise.
- Tie-A-Tie: a site centered around ties, obviously. I stumbled upon it while researching tie fabrics but there’s a lot more to look at. It offers insight into dress code for events, tells you how to tie your ties, and has a section on the often forgotten about tie accessories
Even more:
- Types of High Heels: A page describing twenty five different types of high heels. It gives a description and pictures. Shake it up from just “stilettos and kitten heels”
- Random Job Generator: Exactly as it says. The site offer more generators like characters, plots, or town names.
- Glossary of Hosiery Terms: Figure out what is what on a pair of stockings.
- Men’s Dress Shoe Guide: A quick guide describing the eight most common types of men’s dress shoes. Pics included.
- Types of Women’s Coats: Descriptions and pics of various different types of coats.
WRITING REFERENCES
Infographic: Legally Married and Legally Fired, Center for American Progress
THIS THIS THIS
I’m continuously terrified that people will think LGBT rights is a finished fight as soon as marriage equality passes nationally. There’s still so much extremely important stuff to get to. Marriage is not an end goal.
Keep it going! One step after the next!
Closer at least!
Depression feels like being tired of a long days work even though you’ve been home doing nothing.
gentle reminder
if you can’t believe anything else today, try your best to believe this – you are enough; you are enough just as you are, you are wonderful and the world needs you