jaclcfrost:

liking a character that’s You when you hate yourself is… something b/c you… hate yourself… they remind you of… yourself… you love this person that you realize solidly reminds you of you in a bunch of ways, good & bad. “hey they’re like me but, here’s the kicker, i LIKE them & their faults don’t aggravate me on such a visceral level & i don’t want to punch them in the face. which is what i want to do me. punch myself in the face. repeatedly”

daddy-doms-are-gross:

it’s possible for consensual sex to be unhealthy. it is possible for sex to be both consensual and bad for you. sex can manifest as a method of self harm. you do not have to feel positively about all of your sexual experiences and consensual sex does not have to be unilaterally praised and upheld. sometimes the sexual experiences we seek out are unhealthy for us, and it’s good to acknowledge that.