We really have harmed a whole generation of trans and gnc children by failing to communicate how serious a decision binding actually is, how there’s no ACTUALLY safe way to bind, how it permeneantly damages the body, how it can make top surgery more difficult in the future. I don’t think we should be keeping trans kids from binding (we let kids do all sorts of things they’re really not old enough to understand the potential consequences of) but we owe them the ability to make informed decisions at LEAST
So this is definitely an important conversation to have, but can you point me at some reading about “permanent damage”? I might just be lucky, but I had zero lasting effects from binding. I’d like to at least read up on it so I can have this conversation and be more specific than “be careful.”
Of course! I can’t easily source right now but I am more than happy to provide further info when I am not at work and on mobile. Unfortunately, like a lot of trans healthcare, a lot of what we know about binding is anecdotal and word of mouth. BUT permeneant damage can include:
-Musculoskeletal damage. Binders are indiscriminate compression tools; they can’t flatten the chest without applying pressure every other anatomical structure underneath including the spine, ribs, lungs and heart. Many people who bind experience chronic back pain, shoulder pain, sharp stabbing chest pains, permeneantly decreased lung capacity, literal spine deformation, etc etc.
-A continuation of the above but the ribs are actually jointed bones. Their ability to flex is absolutely vital to their ability to withstand trauma and protect your vital organs. Imagine the damage that would be done to your elbow if your bent your arm to full flexion and then tightly bound it closed like that, for six, eight, twelve hours per day, every day, for weeks or months or years. And you don’t NEED a functioning arm to live!
-Tissue atrophy. Forcing chest tissue to lay in an unnatural way can and will change the way that tissue looks, even to risk of atrophy. Some people who bind and only moderately dislike the way their chest looks find that they HATE the way it looks after binding for a period of time. Tissue atrophy can also make top surgery more difficult in the future, and increase the risk of complications like nerve damage.
-Worsened dysphoria. Once someone starts binding and becomes accustomed to seeing themselves with a flat chest, it can be much more difficult to see yourself without one, and dysphoria that much more intolerable. You can imagine the psychological feedback loop of binding more in response.
The typical safety measures passed around about binding are harm REDUCTION measures and should not be advertised as making binding “safe.” Binding is not safe. It is a very serious health decision with long term consequences and should be treated as such. That doesn’t mean it’s the wrong decision, but it should not be considered the DEFAULT decision for chest dysphoria which is frankly how it’s currently treated.
gonna drop some links to read more:
Health impact of chest binding among transgender adults: a community-engaged, cross-sectional study
Holy shit
Tag: Ftm
Some trans guy tips from your dad
- Don’t try that mascara/arm hair shit. I’ve been passing for more than a year with short, blond arm hair. It’s not an important secondary sex characteristic.
- Board shorts (without pockets in the front) do wonders to minimize the width of your hips. Always choose board shorts over swim trunks. Choose them over cargo shorts if it’s appropriate.
- Speak from your chest, never from your head.
- The goal of binding should not be an entirely flat chest; you should bind for your body type.
- GC2b makes the best binders out there, and their products are designed specifically for trans men/transmasculine people.
- It might seem useless if you’re pre-T, but working out can be a big help for dysphoria.
- Eyebrows are really important to passing pre-testosterone. Muss that shit up. Make them look unkempt.
- When you ask for a haircut, make sure the edges in the back are squared, not rounded.
- If you have peach fuzz, I would advise shaving it. Cis guys shed theirs when they go through puberty. Shaving can also help with facial hair dysphoria.
- Don’t ever buy a binder from Amazon. They run in strange sizes (I was an XXL even though I’m a M in GC2b) and take weeks/months to come. It’s also difficult to breathe in them after a few hours.
Spread the word, especially for the board shorts thing!!!!!! They do WONDERS for making hips appear slimmer!!!!!
for my masculine children :-*
Adding a couple things.
-Patience is a virtue you need to come to terms with. Even on T, things take time. My voice dropped immediately, but my cycle continued for 6 months. We’re all different.
-In the summer, HYDRATE YOURSELF. A binder is an extra layer, and mine have always been very warm.
-When its not too hot, layers are your friend. You’d be surprised what even simply an undershirt can do to smooth out your look.
-You are going to get misgendered. This is a fact, and it sucks. Learn to politely correct people. Remember you might be the first (openly) trans person they meet, so be a good ambassador.
-When you start T, your smell will change. You will sweat like you’ve never sweat before, and it WILL STINK. Adjust your bathing habits accordingly.
*coughs in direction of my trans friendos*
If you have a really large chest you might do better with Underworks binders. They aren’t pretty, they’re not soft, but they do a good job and were the first on the market for a very long time. I couldn’t stand gc2b so if you’re like me, try Underworks.
Don’t double bind.
DON’T USE DUCK TAPE. I still have scars from a dumb decision I made as a teen and I’m 31 now.
When the time comes for top surgery, shop around. Find someone who will tailor your chest to your needs. Look at their portfolio. Compare surgeons. See if you can find someone who will work with your health insurance if you have it.
Be safe. Be healthy. Take your time. It’s not a race or a competition.
Planned Parenthood now offers HRT in all of it’s locations!!!
If you are having trouble finding an endo in your location or are sick of traveling far to get to one, consider contacting your local Planned Parenthood.
I was traveling all the way to Seattle on a 2 hour bus just to see my endo and it was a pain and I actually decided to stop taking testosterone just to avoid the stress of traveling to the city alone just sit in office for less than 5 minutes and be sent home. When I first moved here (2 years ago) I was told that they were working on offering HRT but I never heard anything more. Last month I called on a whim and sure enough, they now offer it and just started in June. I now go somewhere that’s only 18 minutes away by bus which is very nice and convenient. I also know some of my friends that live in more rural areas now have somewhere to go when they didn’t before which is nice.
Whether or not your insurance pays for HRT may still be an issue, but Planned Parenthood does take all types of insurance I believe and they also offer a sliding scale program for those that have trouble affording appointments.
Anywho, I hope this information helps someone like it helped me! I haven’t really seen a lot of people taking about yet so I wanted to get the word out there for those who need it!
Hey there frends-
I know a lot of you out there are struggling to acquire binders, and while you’re waiting to get one you might need an alternative. Ace bandages can be pretty hazardous to your health, so I thought I’d share my binding method with you. It came about out of necessity (I’m not in a position where I can buy myself a commercial binder,) but it’s comfortable and works great. I use it everyday and pass so well, at this point I’m not even looking into commercial binders anymore.
Hope this helps some of you.
ok but like you could reblog things like this for your transboy followers who may not be able to afford to buy a binder so that they can pass as male . … …….
Holy shit you are an absolute god
Always good to share this stuff 🙂
Lee says:
Here’s a transitioning starter pack for all my trans folk out there!
Transfeminine resources:
Presentation:
- Tucking
- Chest area
- Voice
- Broad shoulders tips
- Hair removal
- Feminine walk
- Curves
- Waist training
- Growing out your hair
- Clothing
- Makeup
- Passing
Medical transitioning:
- Not medically transitioning
- Fertility
- Estrogen & anti-androgens/testosterone blockers FAQ
- The types of surgery available
- Surgery: A guide for transfeminine people
- Facial Feminization Options
- Breast Augmentation
- Genital surgery
Other:
- Representation
- Transfeminine period dysphoria
- Yes, Transfeminine People Can Get Period Symptoms
- Slipping into masculinity
- Women’s restroom etiquette
- Transfeminine people can breastfeed
- Having sex or masturbating
Transmasculine resources:
Presentation:
- Binding FAQ
- Clothing
- Facial hair
- Masculine makeup
- Getting short hair / Masculine long hair
- If you can’t start T
- Lowering your voice
- Packing and standing to pee
- Passing as male
- Not shaving legs
- Swimming
Medical transitioning:
- Not medically transitioning
- Fertility
- Puberty blockers
- Testosterone FAQ
- Top surgery
- Facial masculinization surgery
- Body masculinization surgery
- Hysterectomy and oophorectomy
- Bottom surgery (genital surgery)
Other:
- Periods and related things
- Help! I need to see a gyno
- Pumping
- Masturbation and sex
- Using the men’s bathroom
- Hudson’s FTM Guide
- Height dysphoria
- Hip dysphoria
More resources:
- What gender am I? A brief intro to questioning
- What is the transgender umbrella?
- How do I choose a name?
- How do I come out at work/school or to family/friends?
- Dysphoria info and tips page
- Mental health coping page
- Being trans in school
- Non-binary resources
- Resources to send allies/friends
- A page to send to parents/guardians
- Convincing someone to respect name/pronouns
- Here is how to get hormones in the US
- Here is how to get hormones in the UK
- Here’s a US resource with info on changing legally changing your name and gender marker
- Here is a UK resource with info on changing legally changing your name and gender marker
- What are the WPATH-SOC guidelines?
- How to buy a trans-related item online without parents knowing
- I have to go swimming, what do I wear/do?
- Trying to sleep when you have dysphoria
- Traveling by plane
- Does transitioning help mental health?
- Trans identity isn’t a mental disorder
- Being religious and LGBT
- Suicide and crisis hotlines
- How to save money
- Gender neutral pronouns in Spanish
- Getting insurance to cover your transition
- Gender Variance Around the World Over Time
- A map of gender-diverse cultures
- American LGBT history by the National Parks Service
- Transgender Lives: Your Stories (to see trans adults)
- Trans teen’s experiences with inpatient hospitalization
PSA FOR TRANS GUYS
so you know how testosterone is like super expensive and practically impossible to get insurance to cover?
well, if you live near these pharmacys you can get your vial for just 10-18$ without insurance (depending on your pharmacy)
I know it’s saved my ass since i never would be able to afford it in a million years without this
here’s a link- [link]
pharmacys that accept it include- walgreens, CVS, Walmart, kroger, hy vee and a couple others.
please share to help others out!
One thing they don’t tell you about top surgery:
You’re gonna have a hormone crash, and it’s gonna be weird, and for the first couple days you’re gonna feel weird and bad emotionally and maybe feel like you made a mistake.
Yeah, that’s actually normal. Your breasts produce hormones and trigger hormone production elsewhere, and removing them induces something like a mild form of postpartum depression.
IT WILL PASS.
For the first few days I couldn’t even glance at my chest without feeling horrible, like I’d done something egregious. A few days later and I’m fine and thrilled, just as I thought I would be. The hormone crash is real, it’s okay, and don’t freak out about it too much. It will pass. You’ve done the right thing and you know it.
Hormones are just weird and evil.
Morning reblog