A little reminder :
Don’t call yourself “fujoshi” if you think it only means “having gay ships”.
Fujoshi is a pejorative word that means you’re like obsessed by gays & like those ships just because “it’s gay”….
Basically, it’s fetishizing homosexuality so that’s nothing to be proud about.You can totally ship gay couples without being a fujoshi, as long your reason for it isn’t limited by their sexuality ^^)b
Tag: Fujoshis
Young girls in fandom (especially “fujoshi” ew) need to understand that being “obsessed” with gay men, having a ton of men loving men ships, calling us “sin” and seeing us as nothing but “HAWT YAOI” is not at all supporting gay relationships and is in fact an act of homophobia.
You are fetishising our love as if it were taboo and degrading us down to your oversexualised fantasies of us. We are not your kink or your guilty pleasure. It really needs to be addressed early on before it becomes a case of “um shut up im an adult woman and I can’t choose my sexuality as much as you can’t for being gay :)”.
Yes, this goes for men fetishising gay women too.
no offense but straight girls are fucking exhausting and i dont mean that in the “i keep getting crushes on them” way i mean it in the they keep fetishizing/romanticizing m/m relationships while finding every flaw imaginable in f/f relationships to call them toxic and manipulative while hiding behind their m/m ships to pretend they’re not homophobic and i’m so fucking tired i’m so so tired that men can get away with literal murder but if a woman makes one mistake she’s suddenly satan herself and i’m just so so so tired