Tag: Oh BOOD

ninjamelissajulien:

thedarkperidot:

Signs you grew up lonely

– Chasing people who don’t want you

-Making up lots of stories and worlds

-Overtalking whenever there’s someone to talk to

-Excessive reading

-Daydreaming

-Clinging emotionally to others

-Being the ‘disposable’ friend in the group

-Excessive baths

-Talking to oneself

-Obsessive friendships

-Excessive helpfulness

adhd friendships: a summary

adhdphobic:

-“Sorry I didn’t answer I spaced out”

-*randomly switching topics mid conversation*

-“I know this is unrelated, but”

-”I’m feeling horrible” *five minutes later* “uh nevermind that”

– “When did we start talking?” “I don’t remember”

– *both infodump to each other*

– more typos than any human being is able to handle

– when you get really excited and you stay up until 7 am taking about random shit

– accidental derailing the conversation over and over

-”have i already told you this i can’t remember” “don’t worry i can’t either”

why-bless-your-heart:

putyouinabook:

why-bless-your-heart:

Friendly reminder to not punish yourself for creating. 

Can you elaborate on what you mean by this?

I have a tendency to beat myself up whenever something I make doesn’t meet my expectations (which is always). The result is that finishing something = bad feelings: I am effectively punishing myself for having created something. The natural reaction to this punishment is an aversion to creation, meaning that my perfectionism is harming me, not only by causing me to despise what I do make and by impeding the creative process, but by attacking even my desire to create.