ASEXUAL REPRESENTATION MATTERS

ijustreallylovedaredevil:

  • because I didn’t know what asexuality was until I saw it online
  • because for the longest time, I thought I was just broken
  • because finding out there was a label for people like me, that there were others like me, was one of the best days of my life
  • because people still react like it’s impossible, or will go away once I meet the right person
  • because no one knows what it is and it shouldn’t be my responsibility to educate every single one of them
  • because I am told that I will get over it
  • because asexuality is used as a trope for people who are cold and heartless and don’t know how to love
  • because we are compared to robots or plants
  • because people think we have been assaulted or traumatized in some way, and that this is just a reaction, and not just who we are
  • because there is no mainstream media character I can point to that has been identified as asexual
  • because when even thinking about characters who may be asexual, the only ones that come to mind are written that way as jokes or to make a point about their personality
  • because people still think the a is for allies
  • because there are kids growing up right now that feel just like I did and they won’t learn about asexuality until long after they think they’re broken too
  • because everyone deserves to see themselves in their heroes
  • because we exist and we are here and you can’t keep ignoring us

reasons why kouao is the best despite popular belief

achilleanaoba:

I’ve noticed a lot of people seem to think Aoba loves Koujaku least of the boyfriend-options. In relation to that, most people seem to think noiao is the best relationship in the game and I’ve seen a lot of minao praise as of late too. I am going to really ramble here so get ready.

Everyone pretty much agrees Aoba is good for Koujaku. Koujaku has gone through a lot of dark shit in his life, a lot of which Aoba was able to bring him out of. Koujaku almost took his life but he thought of Aoba, so he didn’t. Aoba saved him from being overtaken by the tattoos through scrap. Koujaku deeply cares for Aoba, he’s always protected him, pretty much all of their interactions show it. But then when it gets to Aoba’s side of things everyone seems to ignore how Aoba feels?

Koujaku was Aoba’s hero. Those are literally Aoba’s words of choice, he looked up to Koujaku and admired him and thought of him as a /hero/ because of how he protected and saved him when they were kids. When Sly took over it was after Koujaku left the island. Aoba’s teasing towards Koujaku is very affectionate, it’s literally joke-teasing. Aoba is clearly unhappy with Koujaku’s reputation among women, which proves to be more of a jealousy thing than a disgust thing, especially in Koujaku’s route when he leaves to investigate the women with Ryuuhou’s tattoos.

Koujaku and Aoba mutually, deeply care for each other and have since they were children. That is literally transparent. Moving onto comparisons though, because this is infuriating.

Aoba is someone who attracts a lot of trouble. As a kid he was picked on for his hair and feminine traits. As a teenager, Sly, who was pretty destructive, fronts. When he gets out of the hospital, things only stay normal for a bit. He needs looking after just as much as Koujaku does.
In Clear’s route, the fact he is a robot is a problem. He malfunctions and essentially dies. Aoba is left alone. (Of course he gets repaired but that took a long time and is irrelevant.) Noiz’s route; Noiz leaves for months after the events of his route and then randomly comes back and expects Aoba to go with him. Aoba is completely reluctant, it’s Haga-san, his BOSS who suggests he go. Mink’s route, Mink straight up leaves with no intention of coming back and Aoba, who has been completely manipulated and abused by this man, has to search for him.

This is worth mentioning because Koujaku would never leave Aoba. Before he had to, but he wouldn’t do it now that he’s back.

Then as far as confessions and mutual feelings go, in Clear’s route Aoba is still unsure of his feelings after being confessed to. In Noiz’s route, Noiz is just really forward and kind of forces the relationship which Aoba rolls with because “He’s young and needs guidance.” In Mink’s route, it is truly debatable if Mink harbors any true feelings for Aoba, he’s a really selfish person and used Aoba completely for his gain.

In Koujaku’s route, Aoba sits there patiently while Koujaku tells him of his feelings. His heart is pounding and he tells him immediately after he feels the same way.

Koujaku’s route is the only to end in the first game with any real closure. The other endings are just “this person came back and a relationship is implied”

Koujaku’s good end is Aoba waking up to Koujaku tickling him, saying that they’ve been dating for three months and he’s been living with Koujaku for a few weeks. Koujaku has cut his hair, which was a longtime dream of Koujaku’s. Koujaku says he’ll treasure Aoba for the rest of his life.

Koujaku’s route has the sweetest ending PLUS the side stories are really cute and re:connect too. Like,, I’m sorry but Koujaku and Aoba are perfect for each other. Aoba loves Koujaku the MOST of the boyfriend-options and kouao should be endgame.

Bye

christina-phoenixowl:

Fanfics Where A Character Has Mental Illness

Bad: I am no longer mentally ill because I fell in love! Mental illness begone! No more suffering! Nothing but good days from here on! 🙂

Good: I still have my mental illness, but I’ve found someone who will stick by my side and is there for me when I hit my lows. They support me and understand me and are more than happy to help me when I have my breakdowns/ help me recover because they love me and I love them. 

justsomecynic:

From the makers of the no-effort character checklist, I bring to you… The no-effort complete character sheet for lazy writers like you and me™! 

Because the extra effort I put in staying up until 3 am to do put this together can save us all a lot of effort filling out longer character sheets ^^

You’re supposed to print it out and fold it in half to make a little booklet but you can save ink and do it on your computer 😛

Link to PDF on google drive (fixed typo)

AroAces and Intimacy

aromantic-asexual:

If you crave intimacy but not desire physical intimacies like hugging or kissing you are so valid.

If you just like the idea of physical intimacy but not the actual act you are completely valid.

If you don’t want to be physically intimate at all, you are totally rad and valid.

If you crave intimacy but do not desire to be emotionally intimate, you are so valid

If you just like the idea of emotional intimacy but not the actual act, you are the most valid.

If you don’t want to be emotionally intimate at all, you are supremely valid

If you do not want to be intimate in any way shape or form, you. are. valid.

Your community is at your back and we love you and support you no matter what.